Loving Inspite of All Imperfections

How do i love unconditionally
What to do when it appears that our love is fast fading
Steps to keeping your relationship love lasting
LOVING IN SPITE OF ALL IMPERFECTIONS
Often times, most marriages suffer when it seems that what brought them together in the first place is no longer there.
Probably, we love who we are with because they’re fun to be with but as time goes on, partly due to some other responsibilities in marriage, they’ve lost the fun part of their personality, then loving them as we used to becomes difficult.
Then the question to be asked is “Do we really love them in the first place or we choose to love them because they act in a certain way which we like?
Nevertheless, in my opinion, love is a decision, we should all choose to love in spite of everything, not minding our partner’s imperfections. you can love in spite of all imperfections just if you can take these steps and open your heart.


MAKE YOUR LOVE FOR THEM UNCONDITIONAL
Yes, this is very important, your love for them should not be dependent on the situation of things around or how they act, love unconditionally with no expectations or conditions.This does not mean you shouldn’t deal with issues as they come but never allow it determine how you love them.


AVOID RAISING SOME EXPECTATIONS
This does not mean you shouldn’t have expectations however do not allow these form the basis of your relationship or affect your relationship with your partner. Making expectations form the basis of your relationship is like making a checklist to determine how much you can love them.
DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR LOVE
Never give up on someone you love, they might not love you as much as you love them but the ability to maintain your love for them and love them through difficult times will set a difference.


LOVE THEIR IMPERFECTIONS
Love them not minding their imperfections, this might not get well with you but never forget this is a part of who they are, you could look past this imperfections by focusing more on what you like about them, let their good nature overshadow the imperfect ones.
TELL THEM THE TRUTH THEY NEED TO HEAR
Let them know the truth they need to know even when you don’t feel right about what they are doing, whether or not they take heed to what you have to say, maintain the love you have for them.
These steps will help you to get better and help you enjoy a deeper relationship with your spouse, following all of these steps will enable you love unconditionally.